Thanks for Cory. She is sweet and wonderfull.
fanny from Rhode Island
Cory from California said...
you rock answer girl. thanks for fanny and for all you do for people.
Signed,
Cory from California
You are very welcome.
Signing Off,
Answer Girl
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Question #28
Dear answer girl,
this is Scared again. Thank you for your great advice. I will try to do what you said but it may not work. I have another problem. it is about the same friend. I don't wan't her to come to my birthday party but I am afraid if I don't invite her she might get mad at me and hate me if I don't. She says I am her only friend she has, but she is booting my out of her life. I try to help but she hates it. She does not now really how to be a great friend. I am very worried about her please help.
Scared
Dear Scared,
If you don't want her to come to your party you have a right not to invite her. At this point you definately need to tell your parents or her parents. This is beyond just 'annoying'. This girl is abusing you with her words and scaring you and it NEEDS to stop. Tell her if you want to be friends then she'll stop being mean. I'm sorry. Ask any other questions if you need any extra help.
Signing Off,
The Answer Girl
this is Scared again. Thank you for your great advice. I will try to do what you said but it may not work. I have another problem. it is about the same friend. I don't wan't her to come to my birthday party but I am afraid if I don't invite her she might get mad at me and hate me if I don't. She says I am her only friend she has, but she is booting my out of her life. I try to help but she hates it. She does not now really how to be a great friend. I am very worried about her please help.
Scared
Dear Scared,
If you don't want her to come to your party you have a right not to invite her. At this point you definately need to tell your parents or her parents. This is beyond just 'annoying'. This girl is abusing you with her words and scaring you and it NEEDS to stop. Tell her if you want to be friends then she'll stop being mean. I'm sorry. Ask any other questions if you need any extra help.
Signing Off,
The Answer Girl
Monday, September 1, 2008
Question #27
Dear Answer girl,
A couple months ago I sent in a problem from Scared. It was about camp. Now the same girl who I was talking about in qustion 24 Won't STOP Asking me about coming over.If I ask her to stop asking me to come over she gets really Mad She dragges me into the nursery in church when I am in the middle of talking to my other friends. She won't let me go back to what I was doing, and If I do she says I am dumb or a jerk or some thing hurtful I am very sared and I don't know what to do. Please help me again. Your advice was great about camp
Thank you scared!
Dear Scared,
Happy to help again but very sorry this friend keeps bothering you. Tell her "Listen, if you want to be my friend this is not the way you should do it. In fact, when you do this it just makes me upset and angry. Please don't pull me away from my friends. If you keep calling me names and dragging me around I will tell my parents. I'm sorry, but I just don't understand what you want. It is my choice to have other friends. I don't belong to you!" This girl is very rude and I think that you need to tell her parents or just plain ignore her. I am so sorry you have to deal with this! If you need more advice just ask another question.
Signed
The Answer Girl
A couple months ago I sent in a problem from Scared. It was about camp. Now the same girl who I was talking about in qustion 24 Won't STOP Asking me about coming over.If I ask her to stop asking me to come over she gets really Mad She dragges me into the nursery in church when I am in the middle of talking to my other friends. She won't let me go back to what I was doing, and If I do she says I am dumb or a jerk or some thing hurtful I am very sared and I don't know what to do. Please help me again. Your advice was great about camp
Thank you scared!
Dear Scared,
Happy to help again but very sorry this friend keeps bothering you. Tell her "Listen, if you want to be my friend this is not the way you should do it. In fact, when you do this it just makes me upset and angry. Please don't pull me away from my friends. If you keep calling me names and dragging me around I will tell my parents. I'm sorry, but I just don't understand what you want. It is my choice to have other friends. I don't belong to you!" This girl is very rude and I think that you need to tell her parents or just plain ignore her. I am so sorry you have to deal with this! If you need more advice just ask another question.
Signed
The Answer Girl
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
